Wednesday, January 16, 2013

A Christmas Gift for the Baker



I am a little delayed posting some Christmas ideas, but there are only 343 days until next Christmas!

My neighbor loves to read cookbooks and she hosts several parties around Christmas; really, throughout the year.  I get exhausted watching her prepare for these parties!  Around Thanksgiving, she hauls in twenty live Christmas trees for every room in her house!  I had trouble getting one decorated this year!
 Cream Patisserie Cake Carrier
World Market had the red cake carriers during Christmas, but may be sold out by now.  They still carry this cute cream and green one.  The top part can hold a pie.
The "Southern Cakes" cookbook came from Barnes & Noble.


I wasn't as prepared this Christmas as I usually am.  I will try to plan now for next year by seeing what activities or parties we can eliminate and by planning for gifts. 

I'll share a few more gift ideas soon, just in case you like to plan early!

I hope you have a wonderful day! 


 
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Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Old Industrial Sewing Spindle with a New Use


I found this old spindle in a second hand store for ten dollars.  I was told it was an industrial sewing spindle for holding yarn or thread.  Immediately, I knew where I could use it! 
 
Making sure the tip was removable, I asked the lady in the store if she had a roll of paper towels.  It fit, so I brought it home! 
 
An old item found a new use, and doesn't it look so much better than a store-bought paper towel holder?
 
I hope your new year has kicked off with a great start!
 
 
 
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Tuesday, January 1, 2013

20 Questions for a 2012 Reflection

Brooke, Ashlyn & Mason 2012
Moving Forward, After Looking Back

As we plan to establish some New Year's Resolutions, we thought it was a good idea to look back at the past year.  Here are twenty questions from (In) Courage to help you look back, in order to look forward!  This is my worksheet, but you can click on the link for the original list of questions! 

20 Questions for a 2012 Reflection

1. What was the single best thing that happened this past year? 
     We set boundaries for our family and used the word, "no" more than, "yes."
2. What was the single most challenging thing that happened?
     We set boundaries for our family and used the word, "no" more than, "yes."
3. What was an unexpected joy this past year?
     The unexpected freedom and ensuing joy that came about because of one little word with two little letters.
4. What was an unexpected obstacle?
     We didn't realize how indispensable we thought we were.  We're not.  People and committees are fine without us.         
5. Pick three words to describe 2012.
     Difficult.  Steadfast.  Freedom.
6. Pick three words your spouse would use to describe your 2012 (don’t ask them; guess based on how you think your spouse sees you).  
Diligent.  Determined.  Growth.
7. Pick three words your spouse would use to describe their 2012 (again, without asking).
     Progressive.  Change.  Growth.             
8. What were the best books you read this year? 
     'The Red Sea Rules' by Robert J. Morgan; 'To End All Wars' by Adam Hochschild; 'Inferno - The World at War, 1939-  1945' by Max Hastings; 'The Zookeeper's Wife' by Diane Ackerman
9. With whom were your most valuable relationships?
    The dear souls who tolerate me, laugh with me, challenge and hold me and keep me focused-Rob, my children and the amazing women I am incredibly blessed to call friends or sisters. 
10. What was your biggest personal change from January to December of this past year?
     Finding an identity other than mom and wife (not that I am not grateful.)
11. In what way(s) did you grow emotionally?
     My opinion counts as much as anyone's.  Believing it, asserting it and standing by it was a stretch for this Type B'er.  At 43, I have learned that the 'go with the flow,' attitude doesn't serve well to protect family time.  Ladies, when you hit 40, this miraculous change takes place in which you care much less about what others think of you.  And the freedom follows...
12. In what way(s) did you grow spiritually?
     Part of number 10 was solved by digging in God's word.  My identity is in Him and in 2012 my heart was on fire to find truths in His word!  This growth gave me the strength for number 11 and gave me the truths to teach my children God's 'right from wrong' instead of Christie's 'right from wrong.'  
13. In what way(s) did you grow physically?
     I started swimming.  With messed up feet, this has been the best exercise.  
14. In what way(s) did you grow in your relationships with others?
     My parenting paradigm is shifting as my oldest 'pre-teen' daughter approaches middle school.  Communication is key and for me that means 'listening.'  Collaboration showed the most growth in my marriage and speaking the truth more candidly to others also improved.
15. What was the most enjoyable part of your work (both professionally and at home)?
     Teaching God's truth to my children and reaching other children through FCA at our public school.
16. What was the most challenging part of your work (both professionally and at home)?
    Teaching God's truth to my children, because I am learning right along side of them.
17. What was your single biggest time waster in your life this past year?
     Lugging around an orthopedic boot for many months to heal a past injury, but retrospection reveals that it was necessary to help me slow down and get my priorities in order.
18. What was the best way you used your time this past year?
     No doubt, it was the time spent digging in God's beautiful word.  In 2012, it became so alive to me amidst many difficulties.  Also, I put a timer in my laundry room and set it each day for at least 20 minutes to keep on top of the 'loads of fun.'
19. What was biggest thing you learned this past year?
     The body of Christ, out of love for our Lord, should have a heart's desire to serve others.  By raising children, whom God has placed in our trust,  we are serving.  It is a full-time job to serve and raise children according to His will.  This should not be minimized nor overshadowed by other ministries.  Serving others is something our children should observe, but the service to others should not cause the sacrifice of our young children.  Rob and I withdrew from many, many things in 2012 and set in motion to establish more effective boundaries.  Our children were suffering because of our excessive commitments to others.  (note: no two families are alike and this will look different for everyone.  Others may enjoy a healthy balance of which we were unable to establish.)     
20. Create a phrase or statement that describes 2012 for you.
     While we went through extensive remodeling in our house this past year, God did a bit of remodeling in us.  Old floors needed sanding, leaks in the kitchen needed repairing and the oven needed replacing.  Our old habits needed exposure, the sacrifice of our children needed repair and our voices needed sound.  This past year brought the revelation and repair.  Our resolution for 2013 is to be more 'hands free' with technology and commitments and more 'hands on' with our children.  For 2013, I pray for a continued thirst and deep desire to seek Him, the Giver of peace and rest for our souls.

To see my 10 Resolutions, Words of Wisdom and Good Advice from 2011, click here!
 
 Happy New Year to all of you! 
I hope 2013 brings much renewal, hope and blessings to your home and heart!
 
 
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Monday, December 31, 2012

Thanksgiving Procrastination

 Well, there is nothing like squeezing in a belated Thanksgiving post right before the end of the year.   
 Like so many of you, I like to collect different letters from different places; gas station letters, subway letters, old cards or cardboard letters to name a few.  I don't have an 'i' so I drew one on the small slate 'place card.'
 I love the fall colors; it is probably my favorite season!
 
 
As the year comes to a close, I want you to know how very thankful I am for you!  Many of you support me here at Three Pixie Lane and take the time to check on me if I haven't blogged in a while.  With the unbecoming characteristic of procrastination and keeping up with the lives of three kids, my little blog has taken a back seat.  I love to decorate, make things and write and I love having a place to share it all; here at Three Pixie Lane!    I really appreciate all of you for your endless inspiration, creativity, encouragement and support!
 
I wish you all a happy, happy new year full of many blessings, much laughter and lots of creativity!
 
I am planning to attend the Haven Conference August 1-3, 2013 in Atlanta, Georgia!  If you are going, let me know!  My family and I are staying at the Buckhead Hyatt for the conference.  I hope to see you there!
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Sunday, December 30, 2012

Life Lessons on Sunday- Grace

Brooke at Hawksnest, NC 2012

Dark is the stain that we cannot hide- What can avail to wash it away? 
 Look! there is flowing a crimson tide-Whiter than snow you may be today.
 
Grace, grace, God's grace, Grace that will pardon and cleanse within, Grace, grace, God's grace, Grace that is greater than all our sin. ~ Hymn by Julia H. Johnston


I was watching my daughter play in the snow wearing her ski pants two sizes too big.  The snow was so white, almost blinding and the red of her clothes shouted in dark contrast to the clean white backdrop.  As I stared at the beauty of the landscape and my sweet daughter, I was reminded of the verse that was shared with me the day that I found freedom in Christ at the age of twenty-one.

"Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow..." ~ Isaiah 1:18

I was invited to attend a college bible study by a student I hardly knew.  Surely, God uses people to fulfill His plan, because I doubt the young man would have put it high on his list to invite me to a Bible study; we didn't exactly run in the same crowd.  All I knew about him was that he was quiet, had red hair and was a year behind me in Pharmacy school.  I was walking quite a different path than him, and to this day, I wonder what it was that prompted him to invite me to the study with him and his friends. 

Although I shudder to think what he knew about me, it is certain that he didn't know I had been searching for something for a year.  I didn't know what the 'something' was or Who it was, but that night something, or rather, Someone found me. 

The Bible study leader, another young man whose name I wish I remembered, spoke to me after the lesson.  I wondered why he wanted to talk to me and concluded that it must be because I had the look of one covered in the ashes and soot of sin with tears held back like the floodgate of a reservoir.  Certainly, in a room of church going teenagers and young adults, I must have stood out like a lump of coal.

The leader pulled me to the side and read to me a verse in Zechariah.  "Now Joshua was dressed in filthy clothes as he stood before the angel.  The angel said to those who were standing before him, "Take off his filthy clothes."  Then he said to Joshua, "See, I have taken away your sin, and I will put rich garments on you."  (Zechariah 3:3-4)

The floodgates broke and my tears poured out as grace poured down on me.  I cannot hear the words of 'Amazing Grace', "How precious did that grace appear the hour I first believed" without crying.  The grace given to me was undeserved, yet so unbelievably freeing.  It would take years before I really understood that God's grace is greater than our sins.

Where sin increased, grace increased all the more. ~ Romans 5:20


I often tell my kids that I write these lessons for them, not from a perch, but from a ditch.  I am thankful the Lord put people in my life to help me dig out of the trenches.  While I will always carry mud on my shoes and wrestle with sin, I am so grateful for the beautiful and unlimited gift of grace.


Blessings to you and Happy New Year!

 
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Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas!



 
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Sunday, December 23, 2012

Why Mary?

Brooke, Mason and Ashlyn 2010

Mary was possibly between the age of twelve and eighteen, when she was told she would carry the Son of God.  My oldest daughter is eleven years old.  While she was quite a feisty toddler, she has grown into a beautiful, caring and sweet girl.  She is reserved and a bit shy, but very motivated and dependable.  Her work ethic and determination amaze me.  Often I reflect on the love the Lord must have for me, to give this precious first born child.  I am so grateful for her.  She loves the Lord and has a sweet relationship with Him.  As crazy as I am about her and as mature as she is for an eleven year old, she is still a child, maturity is incomplete, and a deep knowledge of God's word is not adequately developed.

When I consider my own daughter, I can't imagine the obligation given to Mary at such a young age to carry a child.  Even greater, I can't imagine the incredibly awesome proclamation given to carry the Son of God!  I am not disregardful of the fact that even before this responsibility was given, she was engaged to be married. 

Mary is one of the most amazing women in the Bible and in all of history.  Certainly, this is true because as a virgin, she carried the Son of God.  This fact alone places her in a category all of her own.  But, why Mary?  Was she perfect?  Was she befitting to carry a King?  To answer these questions, we must first acknowledge that God is Sovereign.  He "works out everything in conformity with the purpose of his will." (Ephesians 1:11)  Choosing Mary was God's choice, because He is Sovereign.  He is Creator of the universe and Mary was the one chosen to fulfill His will. 

We cannot assume that Mary had done great works in her young life, and such was the reason she was chosen.  Doing good works to earn salvation defies the premise of the christian faith.  If we could do good works and actually keep the law, Jesus' death was in vain.  There is nothing we can do to gain entrance into heaven.  We fall short constantly, and it is the recognition of this and the acceptance of the Sacrificial Lamb of God, which offer us salvation.  The 'works' of Christians come from an outpouring of love to serve our Lord, and is a result of our salvation.  Salvation is not a result of our works.  I think Mary had a deep understanding of this and an acceptance of the Christ-child growing within as a fulfillment of the Old Testament prophesies. 

   As a young Jewish girl,  Mary would have studied and respected the law.  It is clear that she was knowledgeable about God's word and had a deep love for Him.  It is also clear, by her actions that she was full of humility.  Then the angel said, "Greetings, you who are highly favored!  The Lord is with you.  Mary was greatly troubled." (Luke 1:28,29)  We can assume by the angel's response, "Do not be afraid" (Luke 1:30) that 'greatly troubled' meant Mary was fearful or terrified.  She was 'troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be.'

Imagine Gabriel, the angel who "stands in the presence of God" (Luke 1:19) coming to you with a message, "Greetings, you who are higly favored!  The Lord is with you." (Luke 1:28)  I think I would look around and think, "Who? Are you talking to me?"  I would be in disbelief that an angel would want to talk to me ,and out of shame and unworthiness, probably hide!  This would not be from humility so much, but more of a remembrance of the sea of sins flooding my mind!  I, too would wonder what kind of greeting this might be!  I might be 'greatly troubled' thinking the angel was sent to bring me 'home!'

Mary was just a girl and I am sure the presence of the angel of God with a commanding voice caused her to tremble; however, I think it was the humility of her heart that caused Mary to be 'greatly troubled.'   She knew the stories, the prophesies, the angels and the miracles of the Old Testament; and she believed them.  I think her fear was from a feeling of unworthiness.  Dr. Tom Berry in his sermon, "Why God Chose Mary," states that she may have had the fear of uncertainty, the fear of inadequacy, the fear of change and even the fear of criticism.  Often when presented with change, we respond in the same way and assuredly, we have never had such a powerful change to be presented that would alter the path of mankind.

After the angel comforted her by saying, "Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God," Mary probably relaxed a bit and with eagerness, listened intently.  Can you imagine the thoughts and feelings going through Mary's mind as these words fell upon her, "You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus.  He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High.  the Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever; his kingdom will never end." (Luke 1:30-33)

Mary did not question the messenger of the Lord with, "How can this be?"  Recalling the Old Testament verse Isaiah 7:14, "Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign; The virgin will be with a child and will give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel,"  Mary asked, "How will this be?"  (Luke 1:34)  With an acceptance of her fate, Mary wanted to know the logistics!  God's miracles are plentiful and as a response, Gabriel said the Holy Spirit would come upon her and the power of the Most High would overshadow her.  He assured Mary, "For nothing is impossible with God." (Luke 1:37)

Mary replied, "I am the Lord's servant. May it be to me as you have said."   As I attempt to empathize with Mary and understand the awesome responsibility before her, I am overcome with one consistent and powerful thought: the first christian was a woman; Mary, the mother of the Most High.     Excitement must have overcome Mary as she realized she was a part of the fulfillment of over three hundred prophesies foretold about Jesus.  Mary believed the little baby soon to be born was Jesus Christ, well before He was old enough to perform any miracles.  She believed the Child she carried was a miracle!  After He was born, I can't imagine the overwhelming feelings she must have felt as she nurtured and kissed the precious face of God!

Although we are not told about any glaring sins in Mary's life, she, like the rest of us, was a sinner.   The image I have of Mary is that she was a sweet girl; young but wise beyond her years.  She probably had the reputation of being a good girl who obeyed her parents.  She was probably smart, as she had studied and knew God's word by heart.  Mary would have known that the engagement to Joseph was binding.  A public announcement among the Jewish people would have been made and a formal engagement was probably held.  A Jewish engagement often lasted a year and was like a marriage without the consummation.  A woman found with child out of wedlock was to be stoned to death (Deuteronomy 22:23-24.)  Her reputation and her life were at stake.  The most amazing thing to me is this:  Mary "regarded disgrace for the sake of Christ as of greater value"  than her reputation and her own life. (Hebrews 11:26)  Can you imagine giving up your good reputation, and risking your life for something you knew others would surely mock or worse,  stone you to death?  Mary believed and trusted her Father God.  She knew He would protect and take care of her.

Mary was not perfect, but she was humble and totally submitted to God.  She loved the Lord and she knew His word.  Mary was poor, but this hardship did not deter her from trusting the Lord to provide.  She enjoyed a simple, yet blessed life.  She was probably characterized by holy living and demonstrated a heart of gratitude.

Mary is only mentioned a few times in the Bible.  I think she would have wanted it that way.  When asked why God chose her, I believe Mary would have answered, "I do not think I have any special qualities.  I don't claim anything for the work.  It is His work.  I am like a little pencil in His hand, that is all.  He does the thinking.  He does the writing.  The pencil has nothing to do with it.  The pencil has only to be allowed to be used."  (Mother Teresa) Mary's soul glorified the Lord and she rejoiced in God her Savior, but she didn't seek the praise.  Mary sang that all generations would call her blessed (Luke 1:48;) blessed not because of her greatness, but because she carried Greatness himself, the holy Son of God.


Have a blessed Christmas!



Sources: The NIV Bible; Biblegateway; nlag.net; Bible Probe;
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