Monday, September 10, 2012

Two Parties: Fishin' and a Lilly Picnic

 The party plans for my two younger children never quite came to fruition.  We celebrated an April and a May birthday in July with a few close friends (whom we called at the last minute!)  With all the renovations, I just couldn't get my act together.  Since we had promised the kids, I managed to throw a small swim party together; easy and outdoors!
The good news was that I had already collected most of the things for their themed parties.  These large chocolate fish, found at Wal-Mart during Easter, prompted the fishin' theme for my son's party.  Since I didn't need them right away, I waited until after Easter to purchase them.  They had tons of them, and I doubted people were filling their Easter baskets full of chocolate fish.  Plus, they would be on sale!
 
Wal-Mart also had these chocolate bunnies with fish and red and white bobbers.  I set the bunnies aside and used the other chocolates.  I had cut down a bunch of bamboo to make fishing poles and had planned to hang the fish and bobbers from fishing line to give as party favors.  Unfortunately, I never got around to it!  Just passing along the idea...it seemed like a good one!
Another idea I had was to get some maps of  Lake Wylie or sketch a simple one and put copies in the baskets.  It didn't happen, but thought I would share!  I saw on one Pinterest site, someone also made up fake fishing licences.  That would have been cute, too!
 Another cute idea from Pinterest was to put these gummy worms in plastic cups of crushed Oreos, to look like worms in dirt.  So cute!  Time was an issue, so I put these in clear bags with labels purchased at Hobby Lobby.
 Swedish fish were packaged the same way...
...as were the peanut butter sandwiches.  Another idea I had was to use a cookie cutter shaped like a fish to make the sandwiches...as you see, I did not find one because of so little time.  Later, I saw that they actually make goldfish shaped bread!  Good to know if you are planning a fishin' party! 
 This idea was found at Pinterest, as well.  I bought the cupcakes from our local grocery store with blue icing.  I added the fish, pretzel and fishing line, made with white icing.
 I didn't have a good picture of the little fishing creels, but here you can see them, as the boys eat their lunch.  I found these at Hobby Lobby...a bit pricey, so I waited until the baskets were 50% off. 
The baskets were lined with newspaper and filled with a sandwich, Goldfish crackers, a drink, chocolates and candy.  These served as the party favors, too!  Because I packaged each lunch individually, it made things much easier!  I made them ahead of time, so there was no stress prior to the party and very little clean-up.
 While we didn't actually do any fishing, the boys did swim with the fish, went canoeing and splashed around.
 Simple and easy.  To see my 'Gone Fishin' Board on Pinterest, click here!
 For my daughter's belated celebration, we made picnic baskets.  These served as their lunch, as well as party favors.  I had purchased the Lilly fabric from Ebay a long time ago, to use for making quilts for my daughters.  I had so much, that I cut squares for each of the few baskets.  The baskets were clearance items after Easter at Michael's.  I think I paid fifty cents each.  This eased my conscience, because of the price of the fishing creels!
These little gingham party favor boxes also came from Micheal's around Easter.  I filled each with fruit.
 These adorable Lilly Pulitzer animal crackers from Hobby Lobby prompted the theme for the Lilly Picnic.
I filled the baskets with the fruit, a sandwich, the animal crackers, juice (pink, no less,) a ring pop, bubbles and a pink and green notebook.
I had the pink and green flower cupcakes made at the local grocery store.  We spread a large blanket out on the lawn, handed each child a basket and had a very simple picnic!  Easy to prepare and easy clean-up!  Most importantly, we kept our promise!
 
Click here to see my 'Picnic' Board at Pinterest.
 
 
Thanks for stopping by for these belated parties!
 
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Sunday, September 9, 2012

Facebook or Faithbook?

 
As I wrestle with the idols in my life, I wonder how many times, during the difficulties we face, do we run to Facebook for the answers to our questions or the consolation for our pain.  How many times do we run to man for solutions, comfort, affirmation and truth?  As I search for answers, I also wonder if Facebook, or other social networks have, unknowingly become idols in our culture.

Idols give immediate gratification.  They give the desires of our flesh a false fulfillment.  The Free Dictionary defines an idol as "an image used as an object of worship or a false god."  Idolization is the "act of worshiping blindly and in excess."  We see many examples of idols in the Bible.  We also see how strongly God disliked those idols.  In modern culture, we relieve our consciences by assuring ourselves that we do not, in fact, have a golden cow in our living room and that we certainly do not bow down on our knees and worship one.
 
Today, idols are much more insidious than that.  As a culture, we are consumed with finding fulfillment in things, people, power, or money.  For everything in the world-the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life-comes not from the Father but from the world. (1 John 2:16)  God gives the gifts of good things; good food, beauty, leisure, comfort, good friends, wealth and so much more.  All are blessings from Him.  These are good things, but in our self-consumed culture, these good things become 'ultimate' things (as my preacher reminds us on Sundays,) and these ultimate things take the place of our Creator and only Redeemer.
 
The problem with idols is that we like our idols.  I don't want to admit that anything has taken the place of God.  I want to remain blind.  I defend my idols.  I want to keep my idols and God.  It is okay, because I still love God.  He wants me to be happy.  These are the lies I have believed.  They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator.  (Romans 1:25)  Justin Buzzard, lead pastor of Garden City Church in Silicon Valley said,  "I’m convinced that the reason there is so much shallow Christianity in our culture is because many people never displace the idolatry in their lives with Jesus, but instead simply bring in Jesus as an “add on” to their life, keeping their idolatry firmly in the center."
 
Idols are deceptive.  They are subtle and alluring.  Idols enslave and entrap.  A trap seizes him by the heel; a snare holds him fast.  (Job 18:9)  Idols often begin innocently.  If we enjoy the gifts God provides with the right heart, it is likely we will not become slaves to 'good' things or make them into idols.  Our hearts desire has to be for Jesus, first and foremost.
 
If we dissect 1 John 2:16, we can see how social networking might be a feeding ground for lust.  For everything in the world-the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life-comes not from the Father but from the world.
  1. Lust of the flesh, or craving for physical pleasures:  It is no secret that many people now claim social networking as playing an important role in their extramarital affairs.  In this research, I discovered a site devoted to the stories of Facebook cheating.  What is particularly deceptive is that some people display only the prettiest of pictures; often pictures taken years earlier, twenty pounds lighter, no wrinkles and a head full of hair!
  2. Lust of the eyes, or wanting things we don’t have:  Viewing a social network everyday and fixing our eyes on others can lead to forgetting the blessings in our own lives.  This too is deceptive, because it is not necessarily what people have, but what some people may want you to believe they have.  We all want to present ourselves as polished, and with social networking, we can present whatever we want.  I know I don't share images of my not-so-lovely self in the morning, my huge pile of laundry or that ugliness that just welled up in my heart and caused me to lash out at my family.  I wouldn't want people to see the real me.  Since we are viewing the beautiful-ness on a computer page, we tend to think everyone else has great things and great lives. 
  3. Pride of life, or being proud of things we do have: We can have an unhealthy desire to be praised or viewed as successful due to things we have or have accomplished. We make an idol out of being viewed as wealthy, being praised for an accomplishment, praised for looks and even the praises for our children.  We want to be seen as intelligent, powerful, wealthy or to have others see how much we have. 

I am guilty of all three.  Posting your best pictures is not bad.  (Who takes pictures of 'ugly' anyway?)  Just be aware that others are posting their best, too.  Looks can be deceiving, as the saying goes.  I tell my children that there will always be people with more than you, and people with less than you.  It is all from God, so be grateful for what you have, fixing your eyes on your Creator, and the blessings He has given you.  I can look out my window right now and see the beautiful vintage, convertible my neighbor has.  I have to look past my large minivan to see it.  I also know the ache in her heart, because she lost her beloved husband in a tragic accident.  That lovely sports car was his, and is a sweet reminder of him (he collected and fixed up vintage sports cars.)  My big ol' minivan is a blessing to me to tote three of my biggest blessings.  God knows what each of us needs, and He provides accordingly.  It is fine to share with others when something wonderful has happened in your life; maybe you got a promotion, your child got an award at school or you got a new car for your thirtieth birthday. We want to share the great moments in our lives with those we love and care about.  The problem with all three of these is when they become unhealthy and all-consuming; when they are not viewed through the lens of Christ.
 
We have to be careful that Facebook, and other social networking, doesn't take the place of our beloved God and His 'Faithbook,' the Bible that gives the only true comfort, support, love and answers to the difficulties of life.
 
In 'Faithbook,' you have only one Friend.  This Friend loves you unconditionally, mercifully, and graciously.  In Him, there is truth.  Unlike other idols or man-made gods, our God in heaven will always love you, even at your absolute worst.  Go ahead and post those morning pictures of yourself with messy hair and no make-up.  Share that ugliness in your heart.  He will only see a beautiful child, whom he adores and loves so much.
 
Facebook is not a bad thing.  People use social networks for many great reasons.  Some use it to socialize.  Some use it to praise the Lord and share the gospel.  Others use it to connect with distant relatives or far away friends.  Small businesses use it to promote their companies.  Many companies use it to advertise.  I hope that the majority of people have a healthy viewing of Facebook.  I hope it has not become an idol in your life, as it once was in mine.  If you are unsure, consider these questions:
 
1. What do I think about or do most of the day?
2.  What is the first thing I do in the morning?  the last thing at night?
3.  What do I sacrifice in order to spend time social networking?
4.  What do I value the most?
5.  Where do I turn for comfort or affirmation?
6.  How often do I seek that consolation or affirmation from social networking?
7.  Can I deactivate my account for a week to see if it is a master in my life?
 
 My children, Pinterest, my blog, food, and shopping have been or have the potential to be idols (Rob is pouting that he didn't make the short list.)  All are 'good' things that I have, at some point, made 'ultimate' things.  I have had to look at each one and ask myself these questions.  God is dealing with both Rob and me and the idols we have made in our lives.  In His mercy, He is healing our hearts.

 Search your heart and ask God to reveal the idols in your life that are keeping you apart from Him.
 
 
Thank you for joining me with 'Life Lessons' on Sunday.   



Sources: Bible Money Matters; Crossway; Bible Gateway; The Free Dictionary; The Bible; The American Bible Challenge who coined the word "Faithbook."
 

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Friday, September 7, 2012

Favorite Photo Friday


My hyndrageas bloom all summer long and then turn a pretty burgundy-green, as autumn slowly takes her place in the South bringing cooler temperatures with her. 


Have a wonderful weekend! 

 
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Sunday, September 2, 2012

Paint-by-Numbers & a Gingham Frame

 One of the craft projects the kids did this summer was several 'paint-by-number' paintings.  Ashlyn did this one, because she looooves horses. 
We purchased several at Hobby Lobby, but you can order online from many shops. They have a range of simple ones for little kids or difficult ones for big people.
 These pieces of art are treasures to me.  I didn't like the plain frames available, so I purchased an inexpensive document-sized frame and with some Mod Podge added the gingham paper.
 I used red and white wrapping paper, because it is sturdier than regular paper.  I wonder if fabric would work even better, hmmmm....I think I will try that with some old frames and leftover fabric!


Do you remember paint-by-numbers when you were a kid? 

These really are so much fun!


 
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Fear Not, Little Flock- 21 Verses to Provide Comfort to Your Children

My youngest daughter is six years old. Unlike my oldest child, Brooke has rarely had nightmares. Recently, she is afraid when she goes to bed. I have to look around the room for monsters and assure her that it is all clear. She has been sleeping with her big sister for additional comfort.
My oldest daughter had to stumble along with us, as we learned to be parents.  She was often afraid at night, and we didn't always know what to do.  One thing I have learned along the way, is to teach my children to depend on the Lord and His unfailing promises to them.  Of course, a hug, checking under the bed and curling up with another provides comfort, but there is a bigger picture here.  Mom and dad will not always be around to give comfort, shelter or protection.  As my children go through life, I want them to first, seek Him and trust that His Word is flawless.  "As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the Lord is flawless.  He is a shield for all who take refuge in him." (Psalm 18:30)
 
We will certainly be here to give lots of hugs and comfort, but more importantly, this will teach her to seek the Lord and His truth, as she walks the path of life which our Creator has set before her.  Rob and I will fail her, but the Lord never will.  The verse that sits smack dab in the middle of the Bible says, "It is better to take refuge in the Lord, than to trust in man." (Psalm 118:8)
 
When she is at school and someone calls her an ugly name; when she grows and is presented with peer pressure; when she deals with the difficulties of adolescence; when she goes to college and can't find her way; I pray she will remember to run to the cross- a cross where she found solace from long ago as a young child when fear engulfed her.  I pray she will dig deep in His word.  "When I am afraid, I will trust in you. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I will not be afraid..."  (Psalm 56:3-4)
 
 
 
Here are some verses to memorize or share with your children at night:
 
I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety. ~Psalm 4:8
 
When you lie down, you will not be afraid; when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet. ~Proverbs 3:24
 
He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.  ~Psalm 91:1

God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. ~2 Timothy 1:7
 
Be strong and courageous.  Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.  ~Deuteronomy 31:6
 
The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and I am helped.  My heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to him in song.  ~Psalm 28:7
 
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.  I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.  ~Isaiah 41:10
 
 And He said, “My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.”  ~Exodus 33:14
 
Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom.  ~Luke 12:32
 
Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous fall.  ~Psalm 55:22
 
 I have set the Lord always before me. Because he is at my right hand, I will not be shaken. ~Psalm 16:8
 
You, O Lord, keep my lamp burning; my God turns my darkness into light.  ~Psalm 18:28 
(This verse is just a sweet reminder of Who turns our darkness into light; who is the One that set the sun and the moon in place and Who faithfully brings the morning sun every single day!)
 
On my bed I remember you; I think of you through the watches of the night. ~Psalm 63:6
 
Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him. ~Psalm 62:5
 
He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.  You will not fear the terror of the the night...  ~Psalm 91:4-5
 
Even in darkness light dawns for the upright...  ~Psalm 112:4
 
O Lord, you have searched me and you know me.  You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar.  You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways.  ~Psalm 139:1-3
 
The Lord is good to all; he has compassion on all he has made.  ~Psalm 145:9

As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the Lord is flawless. He is a shield for all who take refuge in him ~Psalm 18:30

It is better to take refuge in the Lord, than to trust in man.  ~Psalm 118:8

When I am afraid, I will trust in you. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I will not be afraid...   ~Psalm 56:3-4
 
I found the moon and stars from clip art, added the verses and printed.  When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is man that you are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him?  (Psalm 8:3-4 )  Look at the moon and stars with verses, remind your child of God's promises and reflect on all the wonderful things God has created and the beauty of His mighty hand.  This is the best way to redirect your child's thoughts and fears.  Surely, your child will drift off into a sweet sleep of peace and safety; knowing that he or she is held in the palm of His hand.
 
 
Blessings to you on this 'Life Lessons' Sunday!
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Saturday, September 1, 2012

Andy Warhol's Pop Art Campbell's Tomato Soup Cans

I ran into Target to get a 'few things' today.  At the end of the soup aisle, I spotted these limited edition Andy Warhol-inspired Campbell's Tomato Soup cans.
Several years ago, I saw similar ones used in a magazine layout of a retro kitchen.  I loved the colors and the quirkiness of the labels and wished I could have found a few for my own kitchen.
 
I love art and these little cans are pieces of art!  And at only 79 cents each, they are affordable Andy Warhol pop art!
 
After a hot grilled cheese and cup of tomato soup, we will keep these lovely little cans as vases for flowers or cups for pencils and crayons.
 
  I think this was a pretty savvy move on Denise Morrison's (CEO of Campbell's soup) part.  What better way to celebrate the 115 years of this tomato soup and the 50th anniversary of Andy Warhol’s 1962 famed work, 32 Campbell’s Soup Cans (displayed at The Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York.)
 
You go, girl. 
 
I might just stock up on some more. Your business strategy worked on this consumer!
 
 
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